In the Field of Unfolding

A 1:1 Online Systemic and Psychotherapeutic Journey

In the Field of Becoming is a private, one-to-one online offering for those who want to understand themselves more deeply and explore how family history, relationships, and past experiences continue to shape their present lives.

This work is for people who sense that something in their life is asking to change, but who may feel caught in repeating patterns, difficult relationships, inherited burdens, or obstacles that are hard to understand through conscious reflection alone.

Within a confidential and carefully held therapeutic space, we will explore the wider system to which you belong. This may include your family of origin, intimate relationships, losses, exclusions, cultural inheritance, and the roles you learned to take in order to belong, remain safe, or stay connected.

Systemic constellation work helps reveal what may be operating beneath the surface: unhelpful relational patterns, hidden loyalties, unresolved grief, intergenerational trauma, and unconscious identifications with people or experiences from the past.

Alongside this, traditional psychotherapy provides a grounded space to reflect on what emerges, make sense of it, and integrate new understanding into your everyday life. The aim is not simply to gain insight, but to support meaningful change in the way you relate to yourself, to others, and to the choices available to you now.

The work may be particularly helpful if you are experiencing:

• recurring difficulties in relationships

• a sense of being stuck or unable to move forward

• patterns of overgiving, withdrawal, conflict, or self-abandonment

• family dynamics that continue to affect your present life

• unresolved grief, loss, or exclusion

• difficulty finding your place or fully belonging

• inherited shame, responsibility, or emotional burden

• a major life transition or period of inner change

Sessions take place online once a week and last 60 or 90 minutes. The initial commitment is for a minimum of three months, allowing enough continuity for the work to deepen and unfold. The day, time, and duration will be agreed together. More info about therapist's experience, background, and fees here. 

A limited number of places are available for starting in September. The cost of the program begins at £1,300, with payment plans available. If this offering resonates with you, please email to arrange an initial session and explore whether the work feels right for you.